When a girl is looking for love, she keeps an eye out for indications that you're the type who can commit. Some key clues:

• you have the ability to make dates at least a week in advance...and keep them
• you value family
• you've stayed at a job for longer than six months
• you're still in touch with at least one childhood friend
• there's more than nudie posters decorating your apartment, showing an attempt to put down roots

This rock crystal lamp -- made with a large hunk of quartz -- could certainly act as one (stylish) indicator that your intentions are rock solid.

[$2,200, Anthropologie]